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We Have A Buyer!

January 30, 2012

It has been a crazy 2 weeks since we went on the market.  We did get an offer from our 1st showing!  There was some negotiating back-and-forth a little, but we finally came to an agreement.  They had a 4-hour inspection last Monday.  Supposedly, there was nothing major and we are waiting to hear back from them what their expectations are from that.

We are closing in mid March.  We have very little time left now, so we are going to have to rent somewhere either in Massachusetts or New Hampshire…worst case somewhere in NC (we really, really hope not).  We will have to travel up and pray the weather is okay sometime next month and try to find an apartment or hopefully a house to rent.

This is all more stressful than we had anticipated, but at least we can move on with our lives once this is all over!

Any tips on moving 500+ miles away?

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Last Week

January 15, 2012

Last week was a big one for us. First off, Thursday marked our 16th anniversary! We cannot believe how fast time flies by. Yay for us!

Last Monday we rushed to get the house perfect for the photographer, who then canceled on us 2hours before our appointment. The weather took a nasty turn and turned into a nasty, rainy day. He rescheduled for Thursday, our anniversary as well as the day we were supposed to be on the market.

Therefore, we had to push back going our listing the house until Friday the 13th. We actually had our first showing this morning around 10:30! According to our alarm history (not armed but keeps a history of sensor activity) the potential buyers stayed 30 minutes…long enough to give it a chance, but how long they stay doesn’t guarantee positive feedback, if any.

We were just happy they actually showed up and went inside. Last year we had many times that our days and sometimes our meals were interrupted by showings only to have no one actually “show up.”

The showing was about 6 hours ago, but no feedback or news yet. Wish us luck. We hope to be celebrating our next anniversary in New England! We will keep you posted.

MAJOR UPDATE: The realtor just called as I was about to post this. We are expecting an offer tomorrow morning! We are celebrating tonight! Woo hoo! Calming down now just a little…nothing is final until we get an offer, negotiate the terms, and actually close. Keep your fingers crossed for us.

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Retirement

January 9, 2012

Are you planning for retirement? If not, you should be no matter what age you are.  As long as you are earning an income, you need to be looking towards your future and that includes retirement. Trust me, I know thinking about the future is no easy task when there are so many things to [...]

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Calm Before The Storm

January 8, 2012

Today we have to do a few more things to the house before the photographer comes tomorrow. We have to make a few touch ups in the paint and make sure the outside looks as nice as possible. In life you only get one chance to make a first impression, so we all try to [...]

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Weekend Update

January 4, 2012

I had hoped to enjoy a 3-day holiday weekend and get some things done around the house to prepare it to go on the market next week.  Sunday we slept in a little later due to the staying up for New Year’s Eve the night before.  After a nice breakfast, we headed out to get [...]

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Procrastination

January 2, 2012

Tomorrow is often the busiest day of the week – unknown author. Almost everyone suffers from procrastination…and we all want to be more productive…so why is it so hard to stop? If I knew the answer to that question I would be a very rich person. I truly do WANT to procrastinate less, exercise more, [...]

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When Did You Realize You Were A Lesbian?

January 2, 2012

I am not sure that I can pinpoint exactly when I realized or knew I was a lesbian. I have always been attracted to females. I was always a tomboy. In my early childhood years I could be found always at my father’s side watching him fix things or work on cars. My mother would [...]

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Happy New Year!

January 1, 2012

I hope everyone had a great time kicking 2011 out and welcoming in 2012.  I am sure it will take everyone a little while to get used to writing 2012. We are both so ready to start the new year and look forward to what we hope will be new changes.  Forget resolutions…you need to [...]

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Preparing For Our House To Be Sold

December 29, 2011

We picked out a realtor after narrowing it down to figure out who best suits our needs and utilizes excellent marketing, photography, staging, etc. We met with our realtor and signed the necessary paperwork before the holidays. We are stressed, excited, nervous, etc. All of the emotions are coming in again the same as last [...]

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How Lesbian Friendly Is Your Neighborhood?

December 20, 2011

Where Missy and I live now in North Carolina, there aren’t too many gay/lesbian relationships around here.  We live about 20 miles outside of Raleigh in a smaller town.  It is more of your straight young couples with school-aged kids. We are planning on putting the house on the market in January in the hopes [...]

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